I
grew up in Alhambra, CA ... as the
miracle child of Leo and Estelle Irby,
who were surprised by me very late in their
lives. As the youngest of four daughters,
I had to adjust to having three "other
mothers" for sisters. I actually have
2 nephews and a niece who are older than myself.
My
childhood was a very happy one ... and unusual
to say the least. While most kids were skating
and riding bikes, I was playing with water
torture tanks ... and guillotines! My dad
was upside down more than he was right side
up! Needless to say, that was not always easy
for me to contend with. I knew his escapes
were dangerous ... and could spell my father's
gory death at any moment ... right before
my eyes.
Often,
I would see him performing live on the "You
Asked For It" television shows ...
hanging in a strait jacket, upside down on
a burning rope ... or in a hungry Bengal tiger's
cage ... and fear, anxiety, and panic would
overtake me. Somehow I just knew that I wouldn't
have him for long.
The
stage was my playground from the age of 3.
Theaters, dressing rooms, costumes, make-up,
props, lights, music, audiences and applause
were my world. I was often excused from school
as the magic shows were our livelihood. At
the age of 10, I appeared about 18 on the
stage ... especially with the help of socks
... stuffed in strategic places!
The "Song of India" (now playing)
was our show's theme song, which accompanied
our beautiful illusion of the ethereal or
"floating lady" ... which I performed
often. The sword cabinet, however, was my
specialty ... being the youngest, most limber,
and quick ... performed to the "Sabre
Dance". Though it could have been
dangerous, I knew what to do ... and timing
was everything. My dad's escapes ... Houdini-esque,
of course, were the most spectacular.
Life
was good, though a lot of hard work ... and
my family was a team. Many famous names passed
through my father's life ... Orson Wells,
Edgar Bergen, Ernie Kovaks, Harold Lloyd,
and J. Paul Getty (who had a crush
on my mother)... ;) Probably the most well-known
was a magic student of my dad's ... a young
college guy named Richard M. Nixon,
who went on to become President of the United
States. Even a well-known movie needed my
father's guidance and expertise on escapes. Tony Curtis was given hands-on training
by my father for the motion picture "Houdini".
How
did my father warrant such company and opportunities?
He was not only the best in his field ...
and the most daring ... but he was chosen
to wear the mantle of Harry Houdini by the person most qualified to do so ...
Mrs. Houdini herself. Beatrice "Bess"
Houdini stood by and watched in agony
as my father made a difficult escape from
a milkcan in San Diego, CA. At it's
successful conclusion, Mrs. Houdini,
frightened and moved to tears, declared my
father to be "the only man sufficiently
skilled to follow in the footsteps of my late
husband" (Read
Saturday Evening Post article). Over
the years, many escape artists have claimed
this title or legacy. However, I would like
to set the record straight that my father
is the only one who can rightfully and historically claim the title of Houdini's successor. It is a well-documented
fact, but has been much-overlooked by many
in this field today. This legacy was an honor
and a curse at the same time, because it was
a grueling physical and mental task to live
up to such a legend.
We
crammed a lot of happy living into the 12
years that I had my father. I used to tease
him a great deal because the only magic he
couldn't perform ... was to grow hair on his
head! He taught me many things in that short
time ... most importantly, that there is only ONE true Magician ... God.
Though
not much of a church-goer, yet a strong believer
in Divine miracles, my dad did many charity
and benefit shows, including USO, and
those for crippled, blind, and orphaned children.
To put a smile on a child's face was the utmost
to him, and I felt very blessed to have been
a part of that.
My
beautiful mother, Estelle, was the
one who provided my spiritual education, through
church and choir. So, my life had a fine balance
between honoring my mother and my father ...
and having a close, loving relationship with
my Lord and Savior, Jesus
Christ. I needed that strength from Jesus
each time I was reminded of the dangers of
my dad's career. My mother relied strongly
on her faith for the same reasons.
Ultimately,
the true test of faith and strength came on December 14, 1959, when, at the age
of 57, my father died from complications
brought on by the strenuous rigors of his
profession. It had finally, and ... like Houdini
... suddenly ... taken it's toll. But, unbeknownst
to me, Jesus was in control ... prepared
to lead me out of the darkness of despair.
He had been there all along, preparing me
for that journey.

That
is me next to my father, ready to catch the
victim's head! :)

My
beautiful parents, Estelle and Leo, whom I
honor greatly on this site. I love them more
than words can say.
(See
Memorial For My Mother)
(Read
My Personal Testimony)
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